I have heard that the new legislation is aimed at the Bondage, Domination and Sado Masochism (BDSM) community ? I have heard that the new legislation is aimed at the Bondage, Domination and Sado Masochism (BDSM) community and will criminalise many millions of people. Is this true?
WELL IS IT?????????????????! |
It is true. The Criminal Justice and Immigration Act 2008 (CJIA) in the UK contains section 63 which effectively outlaws possessing photographs of consenting adults who are not breaking any laws (i.e. the act is legal, but owning a photograph of it is not - although there is a provision so that people taking part in the act are allowed to possess photographs of themselves).
The so-called "extreme pornography" described in section 63 defines "extreme" as "(a) an act which threatens a person’s life, (b) an act which results, or is likely to result, in serious injury to a person’s anus, breasts or genitals, (c) an act which involves or appears to involve sexual interference with a human corpse, (d) a person performing or appearing to perform an act of intercourse or oral sex with an animal (whether dead or alive),".
The main issue is that this outlaws photographs of legal acts. It also outlaws acts which might look like they're illegal (i.e. you can't pretend to be a corpse). Also, it leaves too much for the jury to decide - there's no test to say what "serious" injury is. |
What's the appeal of BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism) to women? If you're into it, what appeals to you about it? If you're not into it, is there anything about it that you think would appeal to you about it? |
Since I'm a woman and it doesn't appeal to me, I have no idea.
Why would you want to be abused and hurt by someone you're supposed to be sharing your love with? |
I am looking for movies that depict gothic / alternative lifestyle / bondage / submission / domination.? Any help would be greatly appreciated. |
-Bound by the Wachowski Brothers starring Gina Gershon and Jennifer Tilly
-Secretary by Steven Shainberg starring James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhaal |
Bondage and Domination? I recently started dating a guy who likes to be tied up and dominated during sex. I do not mind meeting his request..but...HELP...what should I be doing. I've never done that before. Any suggestions? |
It sounds like if he already has an idea of what he wants done to him, he would be your first best resource. Seriously, this kind of interaction depends deeply on communication and trust, and what better way than to talk about it with your partner.
After you get the general idea of what he wants in his submissive role, then you'll want to determine what you would like to get out of it yourself. Right now, it sounds like you are more or less going through the motions, which is OK, but eventually it will come to a point where you either tire of it, or you want more out of it.
There are plenty of resources that you can avail yourself of. I would recommend finding an on-line personals site, such as alt.com/ or www.bondage.com/, and perhaps look at what others get into. You might find something there that you've not heard of but has your curiosity.
You can also get into a chat room designed for this topic. Once you have an idea of the what, you'll need to figure out the how, and other people into the same thing can tell you what to do and what not to do.
As always, communicate with your partner. Ultimately both of you have veto power over was goes on in the bedroom, so it's still about the relationship. Most important of all, have fun. Who knows, you might actually enjoy it! |
Is there a proper name for a fetish that involves being humiliated? I know the usual ones:
BD (bondage & domination)
SM (sado masochism)
but just wondering if there was one specifically for humiliation. |
How about "sado-humiliassimus" - meaning being humiliated
in a sadistic manner. |
If a guy is into spanking does it mean hes likely to be into bondage too? Im not into it but I know someone who likes to spank. Does it mean that? I would have thought so as its kind of light domination. |
| My bf spanks me, but he is not into bondage. I have to ask him to put the kinky cuffs on me. I like it he doesn't. He just likes my butt....lol. Most guys who spank their gf really like their butts,that's all. |
Yaoi manga with rouph s3x and humiliation? (bondage s&m)? any1 know the title of a yaoi manga that has rouph sex
or like when one of the character gets humiliated during intercourse
im sorta looking for bondage and domination or s&M
Giocatore, Hokaku Keikaku was perfectt
link: manga.animea.net/giocatore-hokaku… |
Try these -
Hoshi no Yakata*#
No Toy*
Aseru*#
Misshitsu*#
Love Prism*#
Shigekiteki na Kankei*#
Hakui no Shihaisha*
Sadistic Boy*
Love me Hard*
Oshioki Gakuen*
Aijin Ichimanyen*#
Motto Midara ni Shitsukemashou*
You're my Love Prize in Viewfinder*
Koi ni Oboreru Houkago*
Blind Love*
Koisuru Omocha*
Sexy Cool Voice
Hard Core Heart
Under Grand Hotel
All of them have fairly hard sex. The *'s indicate manga with bondage & domination. The #'s indicate manga where a character is humiliated. |
We enjoy our sex life, but have discussed trying swinging as a way of spicing it up; has anyone tried it? We have been quite adventurous between ourselves, and tried outdoor sex, bondage & domination games (my wife as the 'Mistress' mainly), dressing up in various ways, role reversal, etc., and other things, and have talked about trying swinging, but do not know anyone who has tried (as far as we know, at least!). We would be interested to know if anyone has experienced this and what it was like, as well as any practical advice on hows, dos, and don'ts. |
swinging is very much up to the individual couple.
There is two schools of thought, some say u cant be happy in ure relationship if ure swinging or thinking about doing so. They say it will lead to a split in the partnership. On the other side they say that swinging is only for those who are strong in thier relationship and have a clear understanding of the difference between making love and having sex
As we swing we fall into group two. We make love to each other and we have sex with others.
Before u start u have to have a talk about it. If one or both of u think u will be jealous, don't do it. You both have to have an agreement of how far u would go when u meet others, ie what u will and wont do.There is all differnt forms of swinging. form couples who like to see other play in the same room without contact to soft and to full. We have a safe phrase is one of us isnt happy with the wat things are going. We always meet people in public places 1st, ie a pub to see if we get on.
My best advice is to look for a site for swingers. There is hundreds that charge a membership fee but if ure lucky u will find one that is for swingers run by swingers and is free of have nominal charges.
Also keep in mind there is idiots, fakes and time wasters in every walk of life, including the swinging scene.
best of luck |
Movies with male humiliation? Any movies with fraternity hazing, female domination, bondage, forced feminization, girls putting nail polish and makeup on boys, girls and boys fighting, girls beating boys at sports. Anything like that. Longer the list the better. This is for a psychology project so no weird messages please. Thanks. |
| Wicker man, Attack of the fifty foot woman... |
How long is does a night last? Morning Unbroken
by Elaine
Morning unbroken
lingers on the far side
of a planet wobbling
on its orbit while
the frail human creature
searches heaven for light.
Night resists though digits
of the clock redly insist
that yesterday has morphed
into the present tense
though silence of the night
holds the planet in bondage.
Earth has ceased its turning
tired of the four billion-year
revolution. She needs to
rest and to sleep in her
cold crowed space free from
domination of the Sun. |
I like this Elaine, for me it is always now
.... |